Secrets Busy People Can Steal From Spies to Smuggle Mindful Awareness into Their Lives
Mindfulness practice isn’t an escape strategy.
It offers a variety of ways to transform the crucible of daily life into an opportunity to feel more alive.
While this has always been the intent of monastic communities, we can adapt our exploration to fit our technologically advanced, hyper-distracting, and often isolating world.
One effective tweak is to approach the challenge as a spy instead of a monk.
Pay more attention without drawing attention to yourself
Treating mindfulness practice like a secret mission keeps the focus on cultivating attentional habits.
Cracking the code
The essence of mindfulness practice is clarifying the difference between making sense by default and sensing directly on purpose.
While we naturally engage in reflecting, predicting, and evaluating, we can also secretly practice remembering to notice the experience of being alive.
Noticing details
When we practice seeing what’s right in front of our eyes and hearing sounds around us, we begin to pick up on a richness that’s easy to overlook.
Becoming a connoisseur of ordinary moments requires letting the impulse to make sense ride in the back seat more often than never.
Maintaining composure
Mindfully noticing your emotional reactions increases your ability to maintain composure in a broader range of circumstances.
Imagine the value of being able to maintain a poker face without tamping your emotions down internally. This kind of emotional agility is a trainable skill not enough parents, spouses, or employees realize is even possible.
Guarding observations
Stealth mindful habits allow you the luxury of collecting a ton of sensory data without needing to have dramatic epiphanies.
Paradoxically, the absence of pressure sets the stage for liberating insights to emerge naturally.
Be careful, though. People might start to notice you seem more alive and blow your cover.